You may
have heard of Environmental Impact Statements, those reports that show what a
particular activity, such as mining, will have on the environment if implemented.
If you are in IT, you may have heard of Network Impact Statements. Same thing –
it addresses what impacts a new device or protocol will have on the network if
implemented. These and others like them are assessments as to the potential
impacts a particular action will make, based on experience, environment, conservative
assumptions, and known qualities.
Most
people and organizations want to make a impact in their world, whether for
mankind, your customer, or your community. I know I do. I wake up every day
with the personal mission of making an impact on my world. My personal vision
statement reads: “To be the difference that makes a difference in the lives of
others”. It’s noble, I know, but it’s the fuel that keeps me going to be more
today than I was yesterday. My mission statement – the engine that drives me towards
my vision, reads: “To live large while serving others in everything I do”.
Equally noble, I get it.
So how
do you impact in your world regardless of your vision or
mission statement? Here are three keys that will ensure you make a positive impact
in your world and to those around you.
Know yourself.
I have
often stated that I want to be the world’s expert on myself. One of the best
ways to get to know you is to ask yourself a lot questions, then answer them.
Why does this bother me? What am I going to do about it? Why do I think the way
I do? Why do I respond this way? The
next best thing to do is to ask others how they see you – but only if you are
willing to hear the answers. You can do this informally or with tools like a
360 degree survey. If you have ever taken a Myers-Briggs Personality Type Indicator assessment, go beyond the assessment explanations and do the extra
effort to explore how your type interacts with the world.
Be Accountable.
Personal
accountability is a mindset over skill set It responds to circumstances with “How
Can I…” and “What can I…” Cy Wakeman, author of “Reality Based
Leadership”, explains the relationship between reality and accountability, and how to create the right mindset. Her mission
is to remove the drama. Get it. Read it. Practice it.
Being
accountable is more than being responsible to others or for a particular
outcome or resource. Being accountable is about adding value in everything you
do. It’s about owning your reality, being a part of a solution rather than
creating or contributing to the drama. Cy expertly addresses these points and
shows how this can be applied in everyday circumstances.
Be Empathetic verses Sympathetic.
Being sympathetic
either creates or agrees with an excuse for why an expectation is not meet, a
deadline is missed, or that you can’t do something. Being empathetic
understands what the issue is, then places yourself into the solution, i.e. “How
can I help? What do you need from me?” Many elements are at play when dealing
with empathy verses sympathy. Leadership, accountability, dealing with reality,
and knowing yourself all plays into it.
These
keys do not make a person perfect, or even easy to get along with. They do,
however, guarantee that by growing these competencies, you will make a positive
impact in your world. These require intentionality, growth, a change in mindset,
and sacrifice.
Question:
How do you make an impact in your world?
Thank
you for taking the time to read this post. I’d like to know what you think.
Feel free to let me know in the comments section below.
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